As I promise to tell you about the secret of
solving problems of life, well, I will share it now. You will learn about how
to control your emotion, be more patient, and then, you will be able to think
longer about the chance to solve what problems you are fighting now. I will
give you the illustration first. Then you can try it, or just learn and
understanding, it’s all up to you.
Now, imagine yourself that you are triggering
a problem. You feel not good. You are in a plight, bad mood, and won’t care
anyone or anything around you. You are in a very big problem...
Now think, what will you do? Or, what usually
you do if you face this condition? ....
Then think, is it work? I mean, do your way
can make you feel relax, joy, and happy? If yes, then, you are a
good-controlling emotion person. If no, you must learn more about controlling
ego. Because, the success parameter of solving problems are depend on your way
of controlling ego and emotion. I will show you the best way (I think) to
control this and solve the problems.
1. Take up a glass/cup which is fulfilled by
water. Hold it like shown in the picture below.
What do you feel? Nothing? Well, hold it longer.
Hold it for 5 minutes...
Getting tired? No? Alright, hold it for 10
minutes...
Now, you must be tired, right? If no, you
may hold it for 30 or 60 minutes...
The meaning is: the problem is analogized by
the cup of water that you are hold. It doesn’t make sense at the first. But,
it’s getting heavier every minute you hold it. For 5 minutes, you start feel
numb. 10 minutes later, you’ll feel heavy numb. Then, 15 minutes you hold it,
you’ll get tired. Finally, 30 minutes later, you’ll feel so painful and cannot
take it much longer.
It’s the same as when you are in a problem.
You hold it alone, and getting tired every minute. Until, you get frustrated,
you can’t take it anymore. Then, what should you do? Yes, take a break for a
little time.
2. Put the cup on the table or anywhere,
just don’t hold it for several minutes. Take a break and relax. Do not think
about your problem, just free your mind. By this way, you’ll downgrade your
frustrate condition caused by the problem. Maybe, 5 or 10 minutes later, you’ll
feel no tired again. Now, think how to solve the problem. After that, you
should be ready to take the cup (problem) again. Taking and putting the cup like this will make you used and won’t
make you give up when facing and solving the problem.
3.
If the problem still hard to solve by
yourself, then, take another cup (empty cup). Pour a little of water to the
empty cup. This will make the cup that you are hold getting lighter than
before, because the water in it was decreased. Take another empty cup again.
Pour a half of water in your cup that you’re holding into the empty one. Now,
it will be easier to hold, right?
This
is what I called “sharing”. You share your problem with another person. The more you shared, the more you will get
lighter of holding a problem. So, share your problem as much as you can to
your family, your best friends, or your teachers. And think together how to
solve that. Remember, together we are
invincible!
4. And don’t forget to pray, because everything is
already organized by the Almighty.
That’s all my way to fight the problems. Do
you want to try? :)
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