Problems of Life: What Makes It Difficult to Solved?

Om Swastyastu,

 Hi all, how are you now? Fine? That’s good. As my experience of life, I think, being fine is the closest way to be happy. Did you know? Many people in this world are wondering how to be fine for a long time so they can be happy as long as they want. Oh, you also do it? haha. Yes, that’s the human. We all always expect the best, even it is impossible to get, such as the desire for eternal happiness. We know, live in this world is cannot be separated from problems. Problem always comes in our life. So that’s why we cannot get the everlasting happiness as long as we live. 

 Nobody is free against the problems of life. Everyone has their own problems. But, not everyone is able to solve their own problems.  Our life is also cannot be separated from our choices. They say, ‘Life is a Choice’. Did you know? Some people in this world choose to avoid their problems. Few are choose to give up against them. And the rest choose to solve (but only a few are succeed). How it can be? Why many people failed to solve their own problems? (And, why I knew it all? Yeah, I used to study from my experience, haha). Many of my friends were like I said before, they cannot solve their problems, perhaps it caused by these:

 1. Many of us (as a Human) are afraid to take risks. (Do you agree?)

     To solve a problem sometimes we need a brilliant thinking (strategy), so the problem won’t be wider and harder to solve. If we take the wrong strategy, the problem may be branched. And if it happened, it will become very difficult to solve. The fear of this condition will make us tend to avoid the problems. 

 2. We could not stand on the right position.

     The fear of risk that arising from the wrong strategy in solving problems sometimes made us confused in positioning ourselves. If we stand on the wrong position, then of course the problem could be heavier. For example, when we have problems with our friends, we should not act as their enemy, because it will not make our problems solved.

 3. Impose our will (obtrude).

     Hesitant in taking decisions to resolve problems can complicate the problem. So don’t impose our will. 

 4. Wrong time and still in bad conditions.

     We often faced the problems that need to take a several time to resolve. Such when we face our friend who was angry because of our fault. Sometimes it takes time to make him/her forgive us. 

 And there’s still many factors which make our problems cannot be solved or why we often avoid our problems. Do you want to know how I usually solve my problems? If yes, then you should read that one, only at www.hallofinspiraions.blogspot.com. Thanks for reading :)